In 8th grade, I was taught a very valuable lesson. I was the new girl to middle school, coming in at the beginning of 8th grade instead of starting like most at 6th grade. Being new, I was shy and didn't know hardly anyone. While some people were very nice to me other were, for lack of a better term, not so nice. I had never done anything to these girls in fact i had barely even talked to them yet the majority of the "cool girls" despised me. When i say despised me, i don't mean they made fun of me of bluntly were mean to my face. It was the little things they would do. I knew i would never be in that group of girls even though i had never done anything to them. I never let this affect me in fact I think it made me a better person.

During the though time I had in 8th grade, it made me realize I should never put anyone else though what those few girls had put me though. It made me never want to hate girls just because they were new or didn't fit into their group. Without those group of girls being mean to me I never would have met all the other friends and one of my best friends Carmen. 8th grade taught me to stop being so judgmental and to give others a chance.